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Next week, we’ll all have the chance to sit down with our children’s teachers and learn how the first two months of school have been for them. It’s a time to celebrate their strengths and recognize areas that might be a bit challenging. As parents, we each bring our own interests to the table—some of us are most focused on academics or specific subjects, while others prioritize social skills, behavior, or the kind of person our child is becoming. Whatever your focus, we all come to these conferences with hopes, questions, and maybe a few nerves.

Teachers are busily preparing to pack two months of observations, care, and insights into a 20-minute conference. It’s a tall order, and there’s no way to cover everything, but they will highlight key strengths and areas where they already support your child. They’ll likely also ask for your perspective as the ones who know your child best: What have you found works well? What strengths do you see at home?

To get ready for the conference, try asking your child what they think are their strengths and where they may need help. Is there anything they’d like you to ask? Then, take a moment to jot down your own questions. Consider what you want most for your child at Tatnall—whether it’s academic growth, social confidence, or a positive attitude toward learning. Prioritize your questions just in case you’re short on time.

On conference day, it’s important to arrive on time, as conferences are often scheduled back-to-back. Once you’re there, be yourself! Share openly about your child and your understanding of what the teacher discusses. If anything is unclear, ask for clarification. If challenging topics come up, stay calm and remember that everyone is here to support your child’s growth. You may even create an action plan together to address any concerns or set goals.

After the conference, take a moment to process before sharing with your child. Think about the positive feedback, and share these highlights generously with them! Discuss why they think they’re doing well in these areas, focusing on their effort and attitude rather than just grades. If there are areas for improvement, choose one or two to work on together, setting small goals and creating a plan to achieve them.

Parent/teacher conferences are wonderful opportunities to come together in partnership for our children’s growth. Approach them with an open heart and mind, ready to support your child on their journey to becoming the best, most joyful, version of themselves!